Dating After Divorce Advice?

I'll officially be a free man tomorrow. I was with my ex for 10 years. Im 34 years old. I started doing some casual dating. People hook me up on little blind dates. I actually was set up with a girl and we just had our 2nd date. We only did 2 group dates and I like her but its early into the whole deal. Im thinking about asking her to a more formal dinner date with just the two of us to feel out how she feels.

In the mean time a girl that I met before the first girl just started texting me again. I tried to go out with this girl before but it just never happened. Im friends on facebook with both girls. I know this girl more and feel more comfortable around her. We flirt more. She flat out asked me out.

The weird thing is that it almost seems like me tagging myself out with the first girl prompted the contact from the second girl. I literally got texts after I tagged me with the first girl during our date lol. It is also strange that I didn't get a date earlier but now she is asking me out.

Im going to be honest and say I have never really been in a situation like this. Maybe but I can't remember anything lol. Call me old fashioned but it seems weird going out with both. Im not attached to either but I wouldn't like knowing that I went out on 2 dates with a girl and she went out with somebody else on the side. If I wouldn't like it done to me, then I shouldn't do it.

Go for the new girl and hope for the best? Go out with the second girl that I know better but is also risky? Try to work it out to not destroy both relationships since im not attached to either(if this is your option please post advice how lol )?

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Last edited by sadsoul; Yesterday at 09:17 PM.

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